A New Couple Report for a Friend

Hi M*,

So I’ve looked at a few things and I have come up with some interesting findings. First of all according to Magi Astrology his Chiron is in Taurus (Chiron is the asteroid which points to your soul mate) which is in the same sign as your Venus. This is very, very wonderful. It is a rare contact. It indicates a true love contact. There is, however something to consider—your Saturn clashes with his Sun in Libra which might contribute a sobering element to the relationship—–this is called a “heartbreak aspect”.  Just when things are going well and you are enjoying that giddy feeling, real life comes poking around to give you doubts. Saturn is the planet of restriction, censorship and limitation. Not a biggie. You just need to recognize this. My partner and I have heartbreak aspects but we are still together after 8 years. Your guy is secretly VERY SENSITIVE and insecure although he may seem to be really confident, exhibitionist and provocative.  He might need a lot of freedom to come and go as he pleases but also reassurance that you are there if he needs someone. A Libra III does well with a very strong, secure, woman who is NOT clingy or needy. Possessive behaviour from you will make him run for the hills never to return (most men are like that but Libra III’s even more so). Guys like this do better with a very independent partner who does not place too many familial domestic demands on them. He may always prefer to live alone. His South Node in Pisces indicates a VERY COMPASSIONATE SOUL who is a little flighty, unorganized at times, who cannot say no to others because he does not wish to hurt anyone’s feelings. His head may be in the clouds a lot. A person I know has a South Node in Pisces and he is truly and innocently absent minded, though brilliant. Because his South Node is in the same sign as your Moon (the Moon in our chart indicates deep subconscious longings, urgings, what makes us feel cared for and loved) you might find that he does not make you feel cared for enough as you make him feel.  You might make him feel that no matter what he does for you to make you feel cared for and loved it is never enough. My partner and I have this and it drives him crazy because it seemed like I used to whine constantly about what he is not doing for me in the relationship. I have tried to recognize and rectify this and thus our intimacy has improved (knock on wood).  Understand that your guy has a very vain and proud soul—he is very fussy about who he will be with romantically—very fussy. Of course he would be attracted to you! This is because his Moon and Mars are both in Leo. Now the fun part: because your North Node is in Leo and his Mars is also in Leo, this guy will be able to reveal himself sexually to you more than he may have in the past with other girlfriends (of course I don’t know how things were with the others but chances are you’ll be special in this way because it’s hard to line up these kinds of contacts). He will feel very uninhibited with you and THIS WOULD BE VERY GOOD FOR YOUR SEX LIFE WHEN IT DOES HAPPEN. He will feel safe sexually with you and his passion for you might bowl you over. His Venus in Scorpio means that he is all or nothing when it comes to love relationships. This is why he may be holding back because when he falls for someone, he falls very deep and finds it hard to extract himself.  For him, when he is in love, it is all consuming. No doubt—this is going to be a push and pull kind of relationship. You will want to settle down as time goes by and you may have to accept that he may not want to. Perhaps you could make it work, though not in a traditional sense. You leaving him alone and not forcing any romantic issue will have him finding it very hard to resist you. Like I said, if you can maintain a cool, dominant demeanour, he will have a hard time not coming after you. Libra III males are guys who are very attracted to strong, AUTHORATATIVE, independent women who can function with or without them around.  Your North Node in Leo fits well with his Mars and Moon—you will be very good for making him feel cared for and secure. Numerically, you have 6 out of 6 numbers matching or compatible which is rare in itself. It is hard to find this kind of numerical chemistry. His Venus opposing your Mars makes for a very strong sexual chemistry. The couple in 9 and ½ weeks would probably have had Venus opposing Mars if they were a real couple! You may find you can have a lot of fun together—you both may have a bit of the “wild child” that you can indulge together. Indeed Libra and Taurus are known to have an indulgent dynamic to their relationship—a taste of the good life, good food, good entertainment, etc.  If he is really important to you, keep it light—be very strong, and not expect that he is going to settle right away, if ever. You may want to keep dating others if he is giving you mixed messages. It’s unfortunate he does not want to be a father as he would make the most wonderful parent/ stepfather as a 6 life path number. 6 life path number men also attract women who kind of need the nurturing of a father figure in their lives. You may need to recognize this as well and try hard not to place too many emotional demands on him. You may find it all a lot of work in the long run, especially if you feel like it is you that is doing all the investing but only time will tell if it is viable. I think it could be now that you know what you know and not worry too much about what you cannot adjust.  It’s going to be the most interesting dynamic of push and pull. You are a metal rooster and he is an earth goat in Chinese astrology. The elements metal and earth support each other so this is very positive. A goat and rooster matchup is not especially recommended for romance but I think supportive elements are more important to match up well as mismatched elements can prove to be extremely destructive to a fragile pairing. For instance, fire will burn metal, water makes the earth muddy, etc. In your combination, metal must come from earth–he is earth and you are metal. So he, in essence, will support you positively in your life as time goes by.

A side observation: your Moon in Pisces makes you a bleeding heart for others requiring rescuing and empathy—beware of others taking advantage of this very endearing quality of yours.

If you have any questions, don’t hesitate to ask away.

A link for an article about the Nodes of Moon: http://astrology.about.com/od/thebirthchart/a/NorthSouthNodes.htm

Winn

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