Sample Report

Dear S,

I enjoyed our visit last night. You are a lovely person. I sense that you give a lot to the ones you care about and tend to put everyone’s needs ahead of yours. You haven’t had an easy road and I understand your frustration with this relationship now. I can relate to how you’re feeling. I’ve compiled an enlightening and insightful report of some of the most important planetary aspect characteristics of your’s and D’s relationship. Remember he is an Aries so he likes the chase—he won’t feel comfortable with you chasing him. Please read carefully. First a lesson about the south and north nodes of the moon in your charts–basically south is what we should be trying to leave behind and north is what we are striving for in this life. It’s a major component of relationship chart comparisons.

The South Node – “You have been there and have done that!” : The South Node is telling you what you need to leave behind in order for your soul to grow and evolve positively. This is a clue to patterns of existence so deeply entrenched in your soul’s personality by past experience that you don’t need to go there anymore – except to eliminate what doesn’t work for you now. You may have developed bad habits through repetition, and are still carrying outworn personality traits/habits. You will undoubtedly meet up with people who represent bits and pieces of this energy, and with whom you will ultimately have a falling out as you grow in consciousness. If you put too much energy into the South Node it endlessly drains your life force. I’ve had first hand experience!

IMPORTANT: YOUR MOON IN IN THE SAME SIGN AS HIS SOUTH NODE WHICH MIGHT LEAVE YOU FEELING LIKE HE IS NOT NURTURING YOU ENOUGH–J AND I HAVE THIS SAME CONTACT. IT CAN BE DIFFICULT BECAUSE THEY FEEL LIKE NO MATTER WHAT THEY DO FOR YOU, YOU FEEL THAT IT’S NOT ENOUGH. THE MOON STANDS FOR WHAT WE SUBCONSCIOUSLY NEED TO FEEL DEEPLY CARED FOR. ONCE YOU UNDERSTAND THIS YOU CAN PUT THE BRAKES ON FEELING THIS WAY–IT’S NOT THEIR FAULT–THEY CAN’T HELP THAT THEIR SOUTH NODE IS ON YOUR MOON. SEE BELOW FOR YOUR KARMIC LESSON IN THIS LIFETIME.

Your moons are also trine which means they support each other and this is a very POSITIVE aspect for your relationship.

The North Node – New Horizons–(WE LIKE THE NORTH NODE CONTACTS!!!) The North Node brings you opportunities to connect with others who can lead you out of your own particular South Node darkness and draining of your energy, and into the light of a new horizon. The sign position of the North Node indicates new ways of being, potential friends and allies, talents yet unrealized, and heart and soul opening experiences. You will undoubtedly attract people who help fulfil or represent your North Node potential. Be aware that you might project your dreams upon them, thus failing to live up to your own potential and falling back into your negative South Node habits. You can avoid this pitfall by recognizing and realizing the potential within yourself.

His Venus is conjunct (together with) the your North Node—THIS IS WONDERFUL FOR YOU BOTH!

This pairing is a strong indication of a binding tie between you. You are likely to find it easy to meld with one another, perhaps even binding your talents successfully. A major focus of this relationship is romantic love, and in all likelihood the feelings for one another were right away. There is a true feeling of enjoyment and pleasure with one another.

Your Venus is conjunct (together with) his Venus—WONDERFUL

These aspects help boost your overall compatibility, as your styles with regards to expressing love and affection are similar, or at least you appreciate how one another expresses love. This basic understanding helps a lot toward enhancing cooperation. You tend to appreciate how one another dresses, decorates, handles money, and socializes as well. Similar tastes and values are present, helping decision-making skills as a couple. This also suggests that you tend to cooperate with one another on a basic level, and creating harmony between the two of you is one of your priorities. For the most part, you feel comfortable in one another’s company.

Sun conjunct Sun in synastry: Your Sun signs are both in Aries…..

Your overall characteristics and energy levels are very similar. You strongly identify with each other and are very much similar in important ways. It is easy for you to be together because you do not have to explain yourselves to one another. An intrinsic appreciation and understanding of one another’s personality exists between you, and this is revitalizing and ego-affirming for both of you. However, you share the same flaws and weaknesses as well as the positive qualities, and you may find it difficult to be with someone who exhibits the very flaws you like least about yourself. The more you accept yourself, the more beneficial and happy your relationship with one another will be.

Karma is associated with Saturn, where the personal planet person feels some sort of personal debt to the Saturn person. The Saturn person seems to have the upper hand in the relationship, at least initially. Both parties must be more mindful of how they communicate with each other. A balance is achievable, as the personal planet person may benefit from Saturn’s critiquing as long as the personal planet person doesn’t get defensive. Maybe the personal planet person does need to learn to be more responsible and could benefit from some maturation, and Saturn can learn to loosen up in certain ways. Reacting defensively to each other will only exacerbate the problem. YOUR SATURN IS IN THE SAME SIGN AS HIS SUN. A SOBERING COMBINATION.

Yin-Yang combinations:YOU HAVE EROS AND PSYCHE IN THE SAME SIGN of Aries—THIS IS USUALLY CALLED THE IMMORTAL LOVER’S CONTACT. The chemistry is very real and palpable with these combinations. It might be that you immediately dislike each other, or you sense there’s “something wrong” with the attraction you do feel, or feel like you’ve been hit with cupid’s arrow and don’t know how to handle it. One of you may be the person who’s “on the fence” while the other one is pushing forward. The person more likely to be on the fence, reticent, or fearful of going forward at the beginning of the relationship is the person with the “yin” planet in the combination–that is, the Moon, Venus, or Psyche side of the equation–because this is the person who is doing more of the sensing and feeling. For example, if the combination is Eros-Psyche, it’s generally the Eros person who wants to go forward and the Psyche person who expresses some doubts or fears in the beginning. You are more inclined to take up the challenge of this relationship, probably because of incredibly strong sexual chemistry. YOU HAVE EROS IN ARIES AND HE HAS PSYCHE IN ARIES—WONDERFUL AND RARE TO BE TOGETHER. NO WONDER YOU DON’T WANT TO LET THIS ONE GO!!! PLUS, YOU HAVE EROS AND VENUS CONTACTS AS WELL–GREAT!!

You both are 9 life path numbers which is very special because you are a natural match. I think two 9 life path souls together would be very powerful. You would understand each other’s past family issues from childhood. Your soul numbers, personality numbers and power name numbers all match or are compatible. Your attitude numbers are compatible. Your birthday numbers, however, are a challenge to each other (his 2 and yours 7). Not a big deal.

This is your karmic lesson during this lifetime: You have a North Node in Aries THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT FOR YOUR GROWTH!!! I HAVE THIS SAME NORTH NODE–I had to become less dependent on others for my happiness.

You are learning to strike out on your own in this life. You will make fortunate contacts with people who are very assertive, independent and brave.

You have a South Node in Libra: You need to break away from indecisiveness and dependence on others. You need to learn to accept periods of disharmony and/or independence. This would be an indication of how you need to learn to be happy by yourself and if he is along for the ride, great! He will respect you more as well.

THIS IS HIS KARMIC LIFE LESSON: North Node in Gemini: He is learning to connect with others and share knowledge in this life. He will make fortunate contacts with people who are bright, witty, communicative and/or active in the community. He has his South Node in Sagittarius which means he needs to break away from over-optimism and too much wanderlust.

AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST: Your chinese sign of a rooster is a perfect match with his snake sign. However, his element of wood make be a challenge to your earth element as wood breaks the earth.

I’d say to win him truly in the end–back off and see what happens. It might serve to bind you better to him in the long run.

This was a lot of fun. I’d say you have LOVELY, gifted relationship synastry but there are some challenges–if you understand them you will be empowered and informed. Read more on the internet about your south node in Libra to understand what you need to grow as a person.

Let’s do Indian food again with P sometime–it was so much fun! Get back to me anytime with any questions.